In life, I have experienced various different pit stops that have knocked me off my center and completely off my intended path. I say “intended” path because when I was 5 years old and was asked “What I want to be when I grow up”, I didn’t say I want to be a poor unwed teen mom with low self-esteem who makes bad choices that are influenced by abusive monsters with a life highlighted with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
I wanted to be a lot of things when I grew up and it wasn’t a writer. I have loved to read since I was a small child but writing anything seemed like too much work. I hated writing reports and writing was often used as a punishment. I didn’t say I wanted to be a storyteller when I was a child either, although, I loved to listen to stories being told.
Throughout my entire life, I found myself often Side Tracked off my intended path. Being sidetracked seemed to be my theme throughout my life. Often, I felt like a failure. I felt weak, stupid and invaluable because I was weak and stupid. I often prayed for patience and wisdom. I even asked for change while in a magick circle.
One day, I realized that all the things that sidetracked my intended path had a purpose.
I didn’t realize until recently that all the hardships and pain that I have suffered in my life regardless if caused by my own choices or by the choices of others, I was learning something from it. I have experienced a lot of trauma as a child and no, I was not a bad child. I was the vulnerable one. I was the target. Not my choice and yes, it derailed my life from what I really wanted to be.
I wanted to be successful in my life. I wanted to have control of what I did and I wanted most of all to be strong, kind and wise. I have recently discovered that although I went through some horrendous things in my life. Although, I have tried to end my life a couple of times and although, I have struggled with everything I have ever done in my life regardless of good or bad, I was already strong and the experiences didn’t weaken me like I thought. They didn’t destroy me like I once thought. It only derailed me temporarily.
It is because of all the times I have been sidetracked in life by circumstance and poor decisions that I was becoming something else. I am becoming something I didn’t think I would ever be. I am strong, I can be kind, and I am learning to be wise. I needed to experience all those tough lessons that took me off my intended path to direct me on a path I could not see from where I started.
I am not a great Attorney. I never became a police officer. I didn’t become a preacher woman, and I never made it rich. What I did achieve was the realization that I was born with everything I need to be happy. I was born with compassion which allows me to be kind. I was born with an inner drive to survive which not only made me stubborn but it makes me strong. I was born with a unique way of seeing the world which is leading me on a path to become wise. Of course, it has taken me nearly 50 years to come to this realization and I am still “becoming” what I truly desire.
When you are feeling sidetracked in life always remember that you have power. Keep pushing forward. We all get sidetracked. We all are reeled in for a temporary pit stop.
I have been side tracked thousands of times in my life but I have survived. I am a Witch and I have power.
As Long as I have Breath, I can and I will. Watch me!
In Love and Light,
I can relate to this
It’s never too late to pick yourself up dust yourself off and get back on the path to living a victorious life that is blessed with divine power bestowed by the Lady and Lord of our great inspirational life in the Craft.
Just pick up and get on with your life. Don’t worry, tomorrow is a brand new day in your life.